Do you think you are divorcing a narcissist? My name is Karla Mansur. I am a divorce law attorney in Concord Massachusetts. Disclaimer: I am not a psychologist but I see a lot of narcissists in my practice and here are the five Hallmarks that I think identify narcissists. We have control, conflict, isolation, gaslighting and unfortunately this person is very charming. I’ll go through each one of these examples in our six-part series if you want to follow along for more information